It is challenging enough to think about protecting your children from sexual abusers. It may be even more challenging to consider that your children may behave in sexually inappropriate ways that could victimize others. 

It is not always easy to tell the difference between natural sexual curiosity and potentially abusive behaviors. It is essential, however, to pay attention to your children’s actions and know where to turn to for help if they exhibit any behaviors listed on previous pages.

You may worry that you’re overreacting and may be concerned about the possible consequences of taking action. Remember, evidence shows that the earlier children and youth get help, the more they are able to learn the skills they need to control their behaviors. It is much better to address a situation early than to later discover you were right to be concerned and did nothing.

Help is available. The resource listed below has helpful information about “normal” sexual behaviors in children (by age group).  It will also help you approach this difficult issue if the need arises. 

Helpful Resource:

Do Children Sexually Abuse Other Children? Preventing Sexual Abuse Among Children and Youth, published by Stop It Now!^®—a national, non-profit child protection and prevention center.