Plan ahead. Learn ways for safely dealing with a crying baby. Make a list of support people you can call if and when you need help.

• Start by checking the basics: Is the baby wet? Hungry? Thirsty? Too warm? Too cold? Lonely? Meeting these basic needs will often stop the crying.
   
• Is the baby sick? Check the baby's termperature. Does she have a fever? Is there vomiting or diarrhea? If so, call the baby's doctor.
   
• Stay calm and speak softly. The baby may feel your calmness and become quiet. Lower any surrounding noise or lights.
   
• Wrap the baby snugly in a warm, soft blanket. Gently rub or tap the baby's back.
   
• Gently rock or dance with the baby. Try putting the baby in a baby swing or bouncy seat.
   
• Walk the baby. Take the baby for a walk in the stroller or a ride in the car (in a car seat).
   
• Sing or talk to your baby in a quiet, sing-song way. Turn on soft music or run the vacuum. Babies like consistent, rhythmic noise.
   
• Call someone you trust to care for the baby while you take a break. It's okay to take time for yourself. It's good for you and good for your baby.
   
• When nothing else works. Put the baby down in a safe secure place such as a crib, lying safely on his or her back. Close the door and leave the room. Lower the lights. Check on the baby every 5-10 minutes.
   

It's okay to let a baby cry. No baby has ever died from crying.