Natasha

Natasha is twelve years old. Here's what she would like you to know about her.

My Favorite Things:
The Twilight books, the color black.

Activities I Enjoy:
Reading, ice skating, singing, dancing, shopping, watching movies, spending time with friends, going to the city.

What I Want In A Family:
A non-traditional family—-like a single woman as a mom or grandmother (but one who is not too old or tired). An energetic parent who wants to spend time together. I also want to be an only child, and I prefer a family of color.

What I Would Like Families to Know About Me:
I do not put up with other kids in the same house very well. I like to have my own space some of the time. I am developing my own spirituality, so I need room to discover who I am and who I want to be. I want to be respected wherever that takes me. I, in turn, will respect your religion.

What We'd Like You To Know About Natasha:
Natasha is a very bright and engaging young girl. She is inquisitive, imaginative, extremely verbal, and a strong reader. She prefers reading to participating in physical or outdoor activities.

Natasha needs to have a safe adult available at all times. A living skills provider or age-appropriate afterschool program or club will help provide the structure she needs while her parents are at work.

Natasha will benefit from continuing participation in athletic activities/ lessons. This has helped her build self esteem.

Natasha is most successful when adults give her choices; a democratic approach to family decision making when possible may help motivate Natasha to participate in activities.

What We are Seeking in a Family for Natasha:
It has taken some time for Natasha to agree that adoption is her best option. While she'd really like to be out on her own, she knows that is not a good option for a 12 year old. So she wants a home.

Natasha is very clear about her expectations and desires. She wants a family who will love and support her and give her some space. She prefers to live in a smoke-free home.

Natasha's ideal parents embrace her love of reading and education, while promoting and supporting a healthy, active lifestyle. They are committed, patient, and even tempered; support, and participate in, her weekly therapy sessions; and respect her pre-teen stage of development and tendency to vacillate between wanting adult privileges and still needing childlike care and nurturing.

Ideally, Natasha will live in a community that welcomes her cultural background.  

If you are interested in opening your home to Natasha, please contact Laurie Rapp at (802) 782-2092 or lrapp@lundfamilycenter.org.